dont know what to do

I want to color my hair, since I've been natural I havent touched color but loved my honey blond when I was relaxed. I am really scared to do it. But I do love the color I just dont want to wake up with no hair. I wonder what would be the best color to use on natural hair?

ojon, how good is it?

OK, around 2005 right before I got married I was living with my mom in Texas. During that time I had a relaxer( I was addicted to the creamy crack).  And as a result my hair was coming out by the hand full. So one day I was watching one of the home shopping networks and I saw Ojon. I thought it was a wonderful product and told my mom that I wanted some so we got. Once it came I could not wait to try it needless to say I followed the direction and I didn't see where it did anything for my hair. Hair was still all over the place. So long story short my mom came down dec of 2011 and she had some Ojon.  She told me to try it and I was like its not going to work but I took it anyway. So I started to think the directions say wash it out after so long, but the people who found this product are not of African decent. Their natural oils are able to penatrate all of their hair so they need to wash their hair more often  myself on the other hand has tight curly hair so I need more oil. So   I will style my hair with it in and see if my hair gets any stronger.