just something to talk about

ok, I know its been a while since my last post. well, I am going back to basic things. When my hair was relaxed I would use infusium (I think thats how you spell it)leave-in conditioner. I loved the stuff but since  I have natural hair I haven't used it. I got a 15 dollar gift card to walmart so I bought a big bottle and I will see how it works.

RESPECT!!!!!!

What is going on in the world to make us so disrespectful. Has it gotten so bad that not do we not show respect for others but we don't have it for ourselves. I'm all for respect is earned and not just given but a young man looks at a older woman or just a girl around his age the first word out of his mouth should not be b. I. T. C. H. Or hoe. I might want to go to the club just to dance because my day was crappy so why do some guys feel that if they like what they see then that means I should bite. I didn't come to the club to hook up I wanted to have fun and dance just dance. So don't get mad and call me a bitch cause I don't want to give you my number or be crazy enough to want to fight me. Ladies we need to start standing together and start treating each other better and demanding respect from the men in our lives. We need start now if not for ourselves but for our daughters. 

Ok today is the day

Okay today is the day that I try to lose this baby fat. Yes I have a 6 month old and I still have the fat. This is my second child and it is hard to lose the weight. But then agin I am the type of person that would not gain any weight and could eat what ever I want. Good times! Well those are officially over so I am going to the gym and I'm going to try to tone and burn some of the baby weight off. No more excuses because I am officially tired of people asking me if I pregnant agin. It's not cool people, you just can't walk up to people and ask them if they are on their third kid I don't care if you are my grandmother. ( yeah she hurt my feelings with that one). So I will tell you my results and hopefully I will be able to fit in a size 4 again but if not I'm at least shooting for a size 6 dress. 

WE HAVE BATS!

WE HAVE BATS!
No this is not a joke,I really have bats(some call them flying rats). I personally think they are kind of cute but from afar. Well I have found out that I have about 10 to 15 bats living freely in my wall. How did they get there? Well there is a crack in the wall over air conditioner. Those who have read my. Blog about my daughter would know that she has asthma so she and everyone else including my 6 month old daughter is sick. So I called the bat experts a d they charge Round $1000.00 to $2000.00 dollars just to get them out money I don't have. I guess I will try to get them out my self hope I don't get bit ...... Wish me some good fortune

why does it have to be so high!!

Organic products..I love the fact of having organic products. I would love to buy every organic hair and skin product I could get my hands on but my bank account says other wise. Does an orgnaic product have to be soooo high in cost? I know it's better for you I know it's pure, but for a 4.0 oz bottle does the price have to around 15 dollars or more? Im just saying. Ok I understand when you pay for shipping and it makes your purchase a little higher but when I walk in the store I see the same product and it is higher than on the internet....I don't understand that! I mean for what I paid in shipping I paid in gas. Bring those products back down to the right price. Maybe I am the only one that sees it. 

what's up with the pixies

ok, it has been 2yrs since by big chop. And now I have little knots in my hair called pixies. i'm trying to understand why I have them. I have searched all around the internet for answers and what I see is No one really knows why we get them. My understanding is that they come when your hair gets tangled, makes since. But then i came across a forum that was talking about the scissors you use. If your scissors are dull then your hair have more pixie knots.I can say that the time frame from my big chop(may2009) till oct 2010 I did not have any pixies and my hair was cut by a pro. Around oct I wasn't able to take care of my daughters or my own hair because I was sick from being pregnant. After that I noticed our hair had pixie knots and when I cut them It seems like alot more came. So I think tangles may have started them but now the fact that I trimed my ends with dull scissors it made more. I looked at a ad for splitender and I saw some reviews from other naturals and I think I might want to try it. Wish it wasn't so much money but I really want to see how it works.

what about the dog and asthma

Today was a day that I hope never happens again. Friday I had to bring my daughter to the hospital she couldn't breath. Hopeless is what I felt. What can you do when something like this happens. Looking at her in that bed with a oxygen mask on her face, seeing them put an iv in her arm. You just see how helpless we all are. How at any time a person can fall short and there is noting we can do but hope for the best. My child has asthma and there are a lot of late night runs to the hospital but nothing like this she has never had to stay over night. She has been there two days now. And the only thing I can hope for is that once she comes home she not sick anymore. I guess she can't help but have it. Her dad has it I had it as a child. But I had a dog who my mom still to this day says took the asthma away. I have search all over the internet to see what can prevent a asthma attack with out those harsh chemicals, a more natural way if you will. I have found its 50/50 on the dog thing. But could it be so, could a animal take away your sickness? Is that what god made that certain dog for? Well, if you think of it stranger things have happened.